i am 48, and a widow. i have 3 children and 4 grandchildren who do not live with me. i like to go dancing and movies[ i like to rent movies and watch them at home with that special someone while we snuggle.] i am very shy but given time i warm up. i don't want any games i have had enough of those in the last 5 years so if a one night stand is all your looking for then do not bother.